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ADHD And The Doctor: Getting Diagnosed
By Rory Stern | January 16, 2009
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A lot of people ask, “How do I know if my child has ADHD?”
That’s a decent answer, but I think it’s the wrong approach. Whether or not we think of this, doctors are ordinary people just like you and me. Heck, I have a “Dr” before my name and I can guarantee you that I am just as human as the next person…
An Unbiased Opinion
I think the most important step in finding out if anything is “wrong” with your child would be to start with their pediatrician. And I would recommend that you describe the behaviors you are witnessing. Let the Dr. know that you are concerned about your child’s behavior, and be ready to talk about that.
I would never walk into an office and say, “I think my child has ADHD…” First, we just don’t know… There are too many things that can make someone appear to have symptoms consistent with ADHD. Second, it sets the stage and puts an idea into someone else’s head.
Yes, we can influence people like that… (even Dr.’s).
Worst Case Scenario
Now hopefully, in most cases, your child’s pediatrician will slow you down and ask questions related to why you think your child has ADHD. But I am going to suggest that we consider the worst case scenario. What if your child’s doctor is having a bad day and hears ADHD?
Sure, it might be a long shot – but what if it’s not? Are you willing to take that risk?
All I’m trying to suggest is that the following symptoms are more common that most people realize:
- Hyperactivity
- Impulsivity
- Inattention
Whether or not it is ADHD, I want you to focus on behaviors. So let’s start focusing on the behaviors from the beginning. Next time you see your child’s doctor or therapist, share behaviors… Leave the symptoms and diagnosis to the professionals.
In many cases, even what it is ADHD, there can be any number of reasons why a child is struggling or facing certain challenges.
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